We were all born codependent. We relied on those close to us to survive and feel welcomed into this big, chaotic world. We needed that tender, motherly embrace to know we were safe and nurtured; to get the sense that each of us were the most important person in the Universe. We were connected to the flow of life and…
Tag: self-love
How Predictable Is Your Ego-Mind?
You are most likely aware of the things that frustrate or irritate you (your pet peeves), but did you know that your thoughts and emotions—and the situations they crystallize in your reality—are also predictable? In fact, they’re cyclical and if you pay close attention you can use them to unravel self-defeating patterns and better align with your desires, to accomplish…
The Steps To Achieve Your Goals
Goals move you forward, so if you’re not clear or disciplined about yours, chances are you will get stuck on your way to a better life (or business). One of the reasons why I wrote in The Indigo Journals that all feminine souls should embrace the Indigo archetype (or Goddess Artemis) for independence and self-empowerment is because it represents a…
Does Your Sense of Otherness Keep You Small?
If you are on social media sites, you’ve probably read this story. A seminar speaker asks each person in the audience to grab a balloon and write their name on it with a marker. Then all the balloons are collected and placed in another room, and everyone is asked to find the balloon with their name on it. Within 5…
Do You Know What True Love Is?
Billie Holiday soulfully sings, “You don’t know what love is… Until you’ve learned the meaning of the blues… Until you’ve loved a love you’ve had to lose… You don’t know what love is.” Clearly, she’s not the only one portraying love as something that hurts; most of the songs and stories and movies out there convey a very similar message.…
Choosing Between Love and Fear
Regardless of our circumstances and personal history, we all share the most fundamental aspect of the human condition, which is that at any given time, and moment to moment, we really only have two choices: love or fear. Life can show up in subtle and not-so-subtle ways, but when it comes down to it, we are always confronted between choosing what makes…