Do you ever wonder why some people treat you in a way that doesn’t match how you consciously think of yourself, often creating unpleasant or confusing interactions? It’s hard to understand why others behave the way they do sometimes, but when this becomes a pattern that repeats over time, it’s worth taking a closer look and discern what it’s pointing…
Category: Self-Healing
What’s Your Emotional Currency Of Choice?
Be completely honest, do you tend to react with fear (often expressed as anger) or try to change the mood of a situation to avoid ‘making waves’ or keep others happy or calm? Better yet, do you sabotage your projects or goals or getting the opposite of what you expect in your conversations and relationships? If any of this rings…
Why You Need To Heal & Let Go Of The Past
Have you noticed that no matter how different your life seems on the outside—with new people, responsibilities, and goals—you still tend to react the same way as in the past and often feel like when you were a child? Whether it’s the emotional triggers of your interactions or the (sometimes overwhelming) fear of trying something new, switching careers, launching a…
How Well Do You Know Yourself?
A Zen student comes to see master Bankei with the hope to get some advice to manage his anger. He tells him, “Master, I have an ungovernable temper. How can I cure it?” The master thinks it sounds fascinating and asks the student to show him this temper he is talking about. “I don’t have it right now,” says the…
10 Common Thoughts You May Be Dis-Empowering Yourself With
We were all born codependent. We relied on those close to us to survive and feel welcomed into this big, chaotic world. We needed that tender, motherly embrace to know we were safe and nurtured; to get the sense that each of us were the most important person in the Universe. We were connected to the flow of life and…
Why Humility Is Essential For Healing
In an overly masculine world where external leadership and material success seem to be the ultimate goals in life, being humble can be considered a sign of inferiority or weakness. But true humility is an attribute of the Divine Feminine that connects you to the flow of love, health, and inner power. Since the Feminine has been increasingly wounded and…
3 Keys To Finding True Love
Do you seek the advice of psychics and readers because you wonder if there’s someone out there who’s the ‘right’ match for you? I used to do that when I was younger, whenever one of my relationships ended and I felt lonely. And boy, if I had a penny for every time they told me the right person was just…